Category: Letters to Valerie

• Second Spring

  

  I wrote this letter to my daughter on March 20, 2023, the first day of Spring. This is my second spring without her, and I still have more questions than answers.

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  March 21, 2023

  Letters to Valerie

  celebrating life, dearvalerie2022, grief, grief milestones, grieving, grieving mother, learning from grief, losing an only child, rememberingvalerie, sharing memories

• The End of January

  

  This is the letter I wrote to Valerie on the first anniversary of the day she died. In some ways, losing her is even harder now, after a whole year of daily reminders of the impact of her death.

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  March 21, 2023

  Holidays & Anniversaries, Letters to Valerie

  anniversaries, celebrating life, grief, grieving, grieving mother, learning from grief, losing an only child, sharing memories

• My First Mother’s Day Without Valerie

  

  A very difficult day: the first Mother’s Day I had to spend without my daughter. This and every other holiday is now and forever changed.

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  March 21, 2023

  Holidays & Anniversaries, Letters to Valerie

  celebrating life, grief, grieving, grieving mother, Holidays, learning from grief, losing an only child, mother's day, sharing memories

• The Birthday That Never Was

  

  This is the letter I wrote to Valerie on her birthday in 2022, only a few weeks after she died.

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  February 3, 2023

  Letters to Valerie

  birthdays, celebrating life, grief, grieving, grieving mother, learning from grief, losing an only child, sharing memories